"Ironically, the little bit that I read prepared me for the Temple far better than any Church source could have. In it she described the Temple ceremony in detail and talked about how Mormon culture forced her into a loveless marriage and how divorce and being different ostracized her and took a huge toll on her mental health. “When I was about eighteen and geting ready to go on a mission, my Never MO dad brought home a book called ‘Secret Ceramonies’ by Deborah Laake. All rights reserved.In a previous thread, RfM poster "tombs1" wrote: (First serial to Cosmopolitan) - Copyright ©1993, Kirkus Associates, LP. By no means objective, then, but, still, an affectingly personal look into the well-guarded citadel of Mormondom.
Throughout, Laake tends toward emotionally colored, often awkward, writing (``on her first engagement: ``Soon we had created a huge, gay, snowballing ritual of congratulations that sometimes shouted down my fears'') that admirably avoids rancor but that evinces few good words for the church (``the hollow moan of dogma'') she's left behind. Within nine months, the naturally free-spirited author asked for a divorce and began-under the close (and, by her account, sexually obsessed) scrutiny of male church authorities-a painful odyssey of self-liberation that included two further marriages, two nervous breakdowns with hospitalization, and the slow recognition of her worth as a woman.
Laake married Monty in an arcane ceremony whose esoteric details are zestfully described here pledged to wear ``garments'' (a kind of sanctified nightgown) for the rest of her life and began what most Americans would consider a bizarre life that included the recycling of condoms through vigorous washing. Moreover, the author intended to wed not any man but ``the One''-the marriage partner predestined by God-and when she began to doubt that one narrow-minded but extraordinarily persistent suitor, Monty Brown, was the One, Monty and Laake's own brother rushed to her side to exorcise ``the devil'' that had invaded her soul. Though Laake is now a professional journalist, she was raised in a Mormon family and sent to Brigham Young University with one paramount aim: to find and marry ``a faithful Mormon man.'' Without such a marriage, plus the guidance that only a devout husband could provide, she would ``be denied access to the highest level of Mormon heaven''-just one of the many unusual aspects of the emphatically patriarchal religion that Laake reveals here.
A candid, often startling memoir of the author's life as a Mormon wife.
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